Dating can be challenging, and finding someone that you connect with can be frustrating. It’s based primarily on looks. Physical attraction plays a role in dating, but it’s important to remember that that’s merely an opening when you’re looking for someone to pursue romantically. You can be attracted to how someone looks, but that’s only the beginning.
Here are some more specific tips to help you start a dialogue with a guy who finds you attractive on Tinder
Then, you need to get to know who they are. When a guy expresses interest in how you look or another first-impression aspect of who you are, it’s a good sign that they want to get to know you better. Now, you may feel that the pressure is on. A guy has acknowledged that he’s attracted to you, but what do you say? There are ways to start a conversation with a guy that swipes right on you so that he’ll ask you out on a date or vice versa.
Starting a conversation on Tinder doesn’t have to be complicated. You can open with, “Hey, how’s it going?” You already know that the guy finds you attracted, so that’s a plus; you’ve already got the upper hand here. Asking how it’s going opens up a conversation and allows the guy to let you into his world. You may feel that this question is too vague, and that’s fair.
If you look at the guy’s profile and his pictures, you can find something to compliment him on. For example, you might see a photo of the guy and his dog on his Tinder profile. It gives you an opening to praise him on being an animal person, and it’s an icebreaker, too. If he seems to be someone who likes animals, you can say, “Your dog is so cute! What’s their name?” If you see a photo that you like with the guy wearing a particular shirt, you can compliment him on that. It can be as simple as, “I like that picture of you. You’re cute.” Then, you can ask a question like, “Where was that picture taken?” Compliments are a great way to open up a conversation because they make people feel special and give you something to discuss.
Tinder is an app that people use to find others that they’re interested in seeing
By looking at someone’s pictures, you’ll find out things about them. If you survey a guy’s gallery on Tinder, you can get some insight into who they are and what they like to do. Maybe the guy has photos of him out on a hike, or there are a lot of vacation photos on his profile. From that, you can see that he’s an adventurous type. You can ask him questions about where the images were taken, if he likes to travel, and if so, where he’s traveled in the world, or where he’d like to travel in the future. You can look at his photos and find a relevant topic to bring up with him to start a conversation and see what you have in common.
One thing that’s for sure is that most people like to talk about themselves. If you ask the appropriate question, a guy will tell you about who he is. Let’s say that the guy has a photo of him with a musical instrument. That gives you an opening to ask about something that might be a major passion of his. If you see him playing the guitar, ask how long he’s been playing for or what genre he likes to play. If you see a photo of him dressed up for Halloween, you can ask him about the costume. Maybe he dressed up as a character from a movie that you both like, or maybe you don’t recognize the costume and want to ask him what it is. Find something you’re curious about, and open up a dialogue about it. You never know what interesting information your new guy will reveal.